So there you are in the showers at your gym, after your workout, simultaneously exhausted and energized, and in walks a handsome hardbody positioning himself under the spigot next to yours. That first impression wasn't wrong: He's hot. Beautiful backside. Lean muscle, great face, killer mouth. You're human, when he turns, you look: He's endowed like Harvard. ($35 billion.) Better still, he seems actually friendly. And frisky. All systems say go, yet in these perilous times, that one crucial question hovers over the mating dance: But can he write?
In the case of porn star Aiden Shaw the answer is, Fuck yes. Dubbed by inferior wordsmiths "The Brit with the Big Dick," the London native turned California adult film sensation penned a collection of poems and three novels in his thirties, Brutal, Boundaries
, and Wasted
. In 2006, when he turned forty, Shaw earned a Masters degree in creative writing and published his first memoir, My Undoing. Apparently that book covers eight years in his porn career, but not sidestepping his Irish Catholic family, his unfulfilling relationships, and his HIV+ status in a sex industry.
Published this month, his new memoir, Sordid Truths, starts earlier and goes longer. I read three chapters and really liked it. Shaw knows about pace and timing, withholding and delivering. And he understands people. Even while dazzling his clients working as an escort, he's alert to the complexities of sexual transactions. On his very first outing he has a mercurial john who morphs through many personalities in their brief time together: fussy old man who addresses baby talk questions to his dog throughout sex, mad scientist, Roman emperor, slavish submissive. On his website Shaw offers an excerpt from what he says is his favorite chapter, about a group of teenagers at the YMCA. You can read the escort chapter on Alyson's site. It also includes the preface, which felt like a weak beginning. Skippable, save for the one line from Shaw's "biggest fan" in a San Francisco bar who tells his idol, "It must be kind of weird being you."
Look at his adorably NSFW work with Pierre & Gilles here.